fix(exporter): refuse symlinks at file targets and skip tests on Windows

Address Copilot review on #1156:

- Per-file symlink check via new _safe_open_for_write() helper. Uses
  O_NOFOLLOW on POSIX (close TOCTOU window between islink check and
  open) and falls back to islink + open on Windows. Applied to room
  files and index.md, mirroring the existing dir-level check.
- Tests now wrap os.symlink() in _try_symlink_or_skip() so Windows
  without Developer Mode and restricted CI sandboxes skip rather than
  hard-fail. Added two regression tests for the file-level cases
  (room file, index.md).

mempalace/exporter.py

@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@ Streams drawers in paginated batches so memory usage stays bounded
 regardless of palace size.
 """
 
+import errno
 import os
 import re
 from collections import defaultdict
@@ -40,6 +41,30 @@ def _reject_symlink(path: str, label: str) -> None:
         )
 
 
+def _safe_open_for_write(path: str, mode: str, encoding: str = "utf-8"):
+    """Open a file for writing, refusing to follow a symlink at the target path.
+
+    On POSIX (O_NOFOLLOW available) the open itself fails with ELOOP if path is
+    a symlink — closing the TOCTOU window between an islink check and the open.
+    On platforms without O_NOFOLLOW (Windows), pre-checks ``os.path.islink``,
+    which is narrower than no check at all.
+    """
+    o_nofollow = getattr(os, "O_NOFOLLOW", 0)
+    if o_nofollow:
+        flags = os.O_WRONLY | os.O_CREAT | o_nofollow
+        flags |= os.O_APPEND if "a" in mode else os.O_TRUNC
+        try:
+            fd = os.open(path, flags, 0o600)
+        except OSError as e:
+            if e.errno == errno.ELOOP:
+                raise ValueError(f"refusing to write: {path!r} is a symbolic link.") from None
+            raise
+        return os.fdopen(fd, mode, encoding=encoding)
+    if os.path.islink(path):
+        raise ValueError(f"refusing to write: {path!r} is a symbolic link.")
+    return open(path, mode, encoding=encoding)
+
+
 def export_palace(palace_path: str, output_dir: str, format: str = "markdown") -> dict:
     """Export all palace drawers as markdown files organized by wing/room.
 
@@ -118,7 +143,7 @@ def export_palace(palace_path: str, output_dir: str, format: str = "markdown") -
                 key = (wing, room)
                 is_new = key not in opened_rooms
 
-                with open(room_path, "a" if not is_new else "w", encoding="utf-8") as f:
+                with _safe_open_for_write(room_path, "a" if not is_new else "w") as f:
                     if is_new:
                         f.write(f"# {wing} / {room}\n\n")
                         opened_rooms.add(key)
@@ -168,7 +193,7 @@ def export_palace(palace_path: str, output_dir: str, format: str = "markdown") -
     index_lines.append("")
 
     index_path = os.path.join(output_dir, "index.md")
-    with open(index_path, "w", encoding="utf-8") as f:
+    with _safe_open_for_write(index_path, "w") as f:
         f.write("\n".join(index_lines))
 
     stats = {